"You don't have to go on and make the same mistakes I did", says every elder, parent or coach. I will spare you the condescending pep talk. I'm sure you've made many mistakes of your own already. And my invitation is for you to put the past where it belongs, in the past. So you can stop living your life trying to control everything and everyone around you so it doesn't happen again. So you don't experience grief, sadness, anger, betrayal.
You can trust YOU and YOUR choices. The NEW YOU. The created you.
The you that has truly learned and moved on.